Life's Journey



Erin go Brach: How my Irish heritage found me
Irish culture and my family’s history continue to fill me with admiration, affection, and nostalgia, even though my strained relationship with my father complicates my connection to my Irish heritage.

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How I survived being an almost 30-year-old virgin
“So, when was the last time you had sex?” I was 29 years old. I'd just had the worst date of my life. And I was about to tell this guy that I was still a virgin.

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Thanksgiving 1995
We can always find ways to evolve the family Thanksgiving traditions we hold dear, even as we and our circumstances change.

I lost myself: Why I advocate a life beyond parenting
After realizing the extent to which I lost myself, I began seeking ways to build a life beyond parenting. But what does that even mean?

My heart leaks drops of ink
A poem about the currents of pain, how they can spread to others. But I keep fighting and keep trying, even though my heart leaks drops of ink.

World Trade Center, before 9/11
Twenty years ago, I was 19 years old, a sophomore at my local community college. Before 9/11, I never once thought that I might not be safe in my own country.

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I needed to cross the bridge and change my life
At 28 years old, I needed to change my life. During an economic recession, I quit my job, applied to grad school, and moved out of state. I took a leap to rebuild my life.

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Releasing the pain, like dandelions floating away
After disputes over schedules, social media, and respect, my father disowned me. Confronting the futility of the situation is helping me to let go of my pain.

Woman sitting alone in a chair, looking out the window
After I gave birth, my father severed all communication because of scheduling and privacy issues. He rendered my pain, thoughts, and perspective voiceless.

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